Irina's Notes

You don’t know how to make your conversation more interesting, here are some questions which you can ask.

marm1 — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 11:01:30 +0000

Such questions will help you for sure to get to know the person better and to understand if you need this person or not. Do you believe in Love at first sight? Ever make love on the first date? Would you marry for money? Do you have a tattoo? What’s your favorite color? What do you dream at night? What’s your favorite fairy tale? Do you believe in magic? Do you believe in reincarnation? If you could change anything about yourself what would it be? What do you wear to sleep? If I only had one day to live, what would we do together? Good luck!

The 1st of April: is the Day of Laughter or the Day of the Fool?

marm1 — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 08:25:35 +0000

The 1^st of April is not brought in any calendars of significant dates and national holidays, but it can be related to international as it is celebrated both in Russia, and in Germany, both in England, and in France, and in Scandinavia, and even in the East.

In one countries the 1st of April is called the Day of laughter, in others – the Day of the Fool. At this day everyone wishes to joke at others, nobody is insured from draws and even the most serious people involuntarily smile.

The origin of this festival still is not clear. In general, public favorite holidays have one common feature – nobody knows precisely when they have appeared and due to what occasion.

The custom to have fun, joke and deceive each other on the 1st of April exists in very many countries.

In Russia, it occurred after once, inhabitants of Petersburg have been awaken early in the morning by the disturbing alarm usually announcing a fire. It was the 1^st of April, and the alarm was comic.

Presumably more than 70 % of people are going to play jokes at someone among their friends and relatives. So be on the lookout, have on mind a set of fresh jokes and amusing rhymes, and do not take offence at somebody’s draws.

In general, have fun, because laughter, as it is known, prolongs our life.

You don’t know how to star a conversation with the girl in unordinary way? I will help you.

marm1 — Tue, 31 Mar 2009 12:06:48 +0000

You want to meet a woman, who is sitting in the same café as you, but you don’t know how to start your conversation and you don’t want to use banal things like ‘How are you?’

Here are good starts to meet the woman. I am sure you will see her smile at once.

“We don’t know each other, but I had a dream about you last night.”

“Can I offer a drink for you or will you take money?” : )))

“Do you believe in love from the first site, or should I better come one more time to you?”

But if she stills refuses to have a talk with you, think such a phrase into your mind “who doesn’t want us, whom we don’t want two times more”. : )

Good luck!!!!!!!!!

Do you have honest relationships with your partner?

marm1 — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 11:27:26 +0000

People say “it is better to hear bitter truth than sweet lie”. For everybody? Sometimes it seems that people just want to know the truth, but of course this truth is awful for them if they hurt what they don’t want to hear. Usually in relationship women hide their real feeling about intimacy. They say that everything is all right, but they have hidden feelings and emotions. Is it really better to tell the truth no matter what it is?

Let’s imagine that a man cheated his wife with the secretary and then he decided that he should tell her the truth. He doesn’t want to divorce, especially because the fact that they have children and deep feelings towards his wife. He knows that she will not forgive him. What’s better? Truth? Or lie? Regarding that if he tells the truth there will be the divorce, it is better not to tell her.

In keeping the strength of the relationships, one needs to be truthful with oneself before he does something. Each person should think beforehand. Is this action much more important than the results of it?

It has become more and more apparent that when we can find a place of truth, love, respect and self appreciation for oneself, it can so easily lead to being able to be more genuine in relationships with others.

If we are to be in an open, loving, meaningful relationship then surely we can talk and discuss feelings openly. But are you sure about the reaction of your partner?

Open and honest relationships can be only then when you will be honest with you, your feeling, and your emotions.

How should you behave if you want to have stable relations with the new met guy?

marm1 — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 11:35:57 +0000

You go out with your friends to the club and there you meet a guy. You like him much and he shows that you attract him. You communicate, have a drink and enjoy each other’s presence. After this night you can have some more dates and then you wait for his call one day, a weak, and a month. All hopes are gone. What’s the matter? Everything was perfect.

I have asked some of my friends (guys), why they did such things with girls they have met and here are the answers.

First of all, you should not press on him with questions: when will you call? Where do your relationships go to? Does he love you?

For example, if you saw him with another girl, you shouldn’t make a quarrel in the public. He is not your stable boyfriend after two dates, give him more space, he needs to understand that he really can’t be without you.

If you keep the distance between you and him he will want to shorten it, but if you do the vice verse, he will try to go away as far as possible. Such creatures are men! : )

How is your life in the bedroom?

marm1 — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 20:46:05 +0000

Sometimes a husband or a wife notices that the partner behaves herself/himself in other way. The relationships become worse and you feel that you are far from each other. But you ask yourself: why? I love him/ her. What’s the problem? And not many people know that life in bed is a very important thing in relationships.

To have perfect relations with your partner you both have to work hard on your relationships. First of all, do the things which you did when you were dating. Kiss each other when you go to work and meet after work. Take each other’s hand when you walk. Flirt with each other whenever you have a chance.

Make romantic evenings, dates, going outs. Go to the restaurants, make crazy things.

Use every chance to show your partner that he is sexually attractive to you. Touch each other and tease each other often.

Play with the situation. If you want to have the intimacy with your partner right now, show it to him and try to use this chance. Don’t use the standard situations for your intimacy. Make your imagination work.

You and only you can make your intimate life bright, spontaneous, exciting and perfect.

Do you know how to live with one person till the end of your lives?

marm1 — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 11:59:30 +0000

Many people, when they get married, think that they will live together forever, but then many things want to separate them. It can be cheats, miscommunication, career problems, and problems with the health. Many things influence on our relationships.

To avoid the separation, you should be sure in your choice before the wedding, firstly. If you have any doubts, you should not marry at all. Because all your doubts will be realized in problems later.

You should have a strong wish not to divorce. If you think before the marriage that you can change your mind any time, you will change your mind for sure. You should think over it and make the correct decision. You should not forget about the thing that another partner will suffer because of your changes.

Also a good example is the example of your parents. If you see that your parents live together happily and for many years, of course you will do everything to be together with your behalf.

If you really love each other, try to be together forever and be the example for your children.

You can’t find the right words to say that you love the person, can you? Here they are!

marm1 — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 11:00:22 +0000

If only I could have come up with the right words to describe the depth of this beautiful feeling that I have for you, I would have uttered them to you the first time I laid my eyes on you. But, I lacked that knowledge, so the best thing that I can do is to show you how I really mean it now. I love you so dearly, sweetie. Do you know? You are the best thing that ever happened to me. You are like the best poetry ever composed, the best song ever played, the best picture ever painted. I never thought and expected that someone like me could get so lucky by finding you. How could I have known the comfort and the security of knowing that whenever I say “I love you,” you’re going to say the same words, too? I know that you love me too, or you wouldn’t have married me. Marrying me was just among the many wonderful things you have done to show me how much I mean to you and that you are sincere. I love you sweetie, more than my life… more than my world. You are my world. Life wouldn’t be life if not shared with you. We may be far away from each other for now, but you have my heart and my love. And I know that I have yours, too. It just feels so wonderful knowing and believing that. Aren’t we lucky? I love you… more and more each day.

Do you know anything about Ukrainian dishes?

marm1 — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 10:39:36 +0000

Borsch and vareniki is something any Ukrainian cannot simply live without )). So I think that this is a traditional dish. And there are also pelmeni which is one of my favorite dishes. They are made of meat wrapped in dough and boiled, it is better to eat them with garlic sauce (but then you aren’t allowed to go out and talk to people because of the smell )) or with vinegar. And vareniki are almost the same, it’s only that instead of meat you can wrap into dough anything you want!! Like cheese, cabbage, mashed potatoes, cherries, eggs and much more other )). And borsch is a special Ukrainian soup which is made of potatoes, carrots, cabbage, onion, beet and tomatoes. These ingredients are all mixed together into a very tasty and a little bit sour soup. But the taste is very peculiar.

Should we follow the advices which are given by other people?

marm1 — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 08:41:09 +0000

Usually we have a common situation when you have a problem with something you can hear many advices from your parents, friends, relatives, co-workers. Should we really follow them? Do they really want to help us?

You can get the advice from everywhere. There are magazines, books, TV programs who say that they know the solution of your problem.

Your friends always pursued you to do as they think. They think that they have big practice in relations, fashion and the life itself.

Your mother can advice you something imaging herself on your place. But can her advice suit your situation, your life? She wishes only good things for you, but sometimes she doesn’t understand that they are good for her, but not for you.

I would recommend you to listen to all those people above, but still assuming the situation from the own point of you; behave yourself as you consider it to be the best. Either you can go the Psychologist. This is the person who was trained to give advices.

Making the conclusion, you should listen to all, but hear only yourself.