People say “it is better to hear bitter truth than sweet lie”. For everybody? Sometimes it seems that people just want to know the truth, but of course this truth is awful for them if they hurt what they don’t want to hear. Usually in relationship women hide their real feeling about intimacy. They say that everything is all right, but they have hidden feelings and emotions. Is it really better to tell the truth no matter what it is?
Let’s imagine that a man cheated his wife with the secretary and then he decided that he should tell her the truth. He doesn’t want to divorce, especially because the fact that they have children and deep feelings towards his wife. He knows that she will not forgive him. What’s better? Truth? Or lie? Regarding that if he tells the truth there will be the divorce, it is better not to tell her.
In keeping the strength of the relationships, one needs to be truthful with oneself before he does something. Each person should think beforehand. Is this action much more important than the results of it?
It has become more and more apparent that when we can find a place of truth, love, respect and self appreciation for oneself, it can so easily lead to being able to be more genuine in relationships with others.
If we are to be in an open, loving, meaningful relationship then surely we can talk and discuss feelings openly. But are you sure about the reaction of your partner?
Open and honest relationships can be only then when you will be honest with you, your feeling, and your emotions.
